One of the keys to achieving a healthy and well-being relationship is based on good communication. That is, being aware of how important it is to share emotions and thoughts, express oneself and, ultimately, know how the couple feels. In fact, poor communication is one of the main bad habits that will end up poisoning and ruining these types of ties. This happens especially when one of the two parties perceives that the other is not listening to them. Since there is no point in making an effort to carry out active communication if it is not going to be taken into account.
Frustration is one of the first feelings you experience when you realize that your efforts to be heard do not seem to be reciprocated by your partner. In these cases it is important to identify the why, since it is something that could end up spelling the end of the relationship. In certain cases, due to misunderstandings or ineffective communication that could have been resolved. Although, in others, it could be a sign that said outcome was the best for both parties.
The reasons why a person does not listen to their partner are varied and the first step will be to identify which one is affecting communication. The psychologist Valeria Sabater identifies a series of common possibilities.
For a couple to communicate in a healthy way, it is necessary that both do their part and carry out a series of actions that facilitate what should be a habit.
