There familiesorg: My father took our money

FC København - 4. nov. 2019 - at. 10:02 Bendtner tried to bribe the cop with 100,000 crowns in Several places in his book, ’Both sides’, facing Nicklas Bendtn

There familiesorg: My father took our money

FC København - 4. nov. 2019 - at. 10:02 Bendtner tried to bribe the cop with 100,000 crowns in Several places in his book, ’Both sides’, facing Nicklas Bendtn

Ann McDonald
Ann McDonald
04 November 2019 Monday 07:00
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There familiesorg: My father took our money

FC København - 4. nov. 2019 - at. 10:02 Bendtner tried to bribe the cop with 100,000 crowns

in Several places in his book, ’Both sides’, facing Nicklas Bendtner back to his life's probably biggest disappointment. The breach with the father, Thomas Bendtner, who – he feels – has snyltet roughly on his career and cynical has put money aside for himself, just like he left Karly's mother, Joan, disgracefully.

in Several places it shines through how the awareness of the character traits he shares with his father, torments him, and how he tries to fight against.

’It's also about my father. I did not want to end up like him. I will not be he who lies and cheats in front of her own children. I'm not that guy, although we have so many other commonalities. Frækheden and kvindeglæden and all that’, he writes somewhere, before he several times returns to the father, he has broken with.

Thomas Bendtner was long a major player in his career as his familiar and a transition even his agent.

Thomas Bendtner was for many years the closest confidant for Nicklas Bendtner. Here he is with the family arrived to the european championship for U21 national team in Portugal in 2006. Photo: Lars Møller/Ritzau Scanpix
After his trial for promillekørsel in 2013 read Nicklas Bendtner a public regret authored by pr-advisor Jesper Lynghus up in front of the district court, while his father should take care of the other opinions.

’They are cleared for loyalty or shades. It is almost as if he is trying to shout louder than all of the other’, writes Bendtner.

’My father does not support, and it would probably be easier to accept if he is not at the same time lived fat on the to have me as a son. At least he should show some care back. My little brother says that he walks around on Eight Liebes Avenue and refers to me as 'idiot'.'

from there it was tillidsbruddet still deeper, and their relationship completely freezes in the summer of 2014, when Nicklas Bendtner begins to investigate the conditions in his jewellery company, Noble by Bendtner, who at the time has been in existence for three years.

A designer draw bracelet, while his father is the director, who travel around in order to create interest. It is to put it mildly, not succeeded, even if the father is the all-time bedyret that a breakthrough is imminent.

Nicklas' mother begs him not to put the father from the order, because the parents need the income, but the son has pumped seven billion in the company, and in the first place, he lets a friend for his girlfriend and since lawyers look at the situation. An offended Thomas Bendtner leaving even his position.

While everything was still alright between Nicklas and Thomas Bendtner in 2010. Ago is very much gone wrong between the two. Photo: Liselotte Sabroe/Ritzau Scanpix
After the new year turns, the lawyers are left with a result that shows that ’there has been sold eerily get jewelry’, while in turn, has been ’a huge and growing cash flow the other way. Out of the firm’, and concludes on the father's expenses for hotels, restaurants, luxury goods, air travel, just as he has pulled more cash out. A large seven-digit amounts, however, has not been to track.

’It is encouraging in the light now, but it does not mean that my father comes creeping’, finds Nicklas Bendtner, as the hope - but not expect - an apology.

the Book is not least a reckoning with the father and the pain that followed with the breakup. Photo: Ole Steen
He writes, how he torments himself by thinking back on the episodes, where his dad has shaved for him. For example, when Nicklas gave his younger brother, Jannick, tickets to Arsenal matches, so he could sell them and supplement his pocket money.

’When he made the 1000 pound, my father took the 500 without first asking for permission. He just did it. How 'thank you, them floss I'-like.'

Who finds it? Who takes money from his own sons? I will take it seriously and I promise myself to not go into oblivion.'

In the same chapter he tells how the father shortly after also left his mother.

’Soon after discovered my mother, that he was in a life crisis, which he otherwise spoke loudly and long. He had just found himself a younger model’, he writes and tells his father at the apartment nothing left for his wife.

He disconnects from his father, who only long after the sudden ’out of the blue’ write for him from a skiing holiday together with Jannick and tells that he misses the kind of trips with both her boys. Whether it might not be fun to do again?

’There are no regrets. He seems, we must make a dash over it all and take on ski trips. On my bill, if I know him right. I answer him not.'

It is not managed Extra Leaf to obtain a response to the son, the production from Thomas Bendtner.

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