As the u.s. rapper T. I. on Tuesday was a guest in the podcast 'Ladies like us', he was asked whether he ever talks about sex with his 18-year-old daughter.
the Rap star's answer shocked both the hostess as well as the listeners. He explained that he annually takes his oldest daughter, 18-year-old Deyjah Harris, with to a gynecologist to check if she has cultivated the sex and lost her virginity.
It writes several media outlets including NBC News and Rolling Stone
Here is the rapper T. I. to premiere with none other than Will Smith in the year 2006. (photo: Ritzau Scanpix)
the Criticism against T. I. immediately went berserk on social media, where his opinions were called despicable and an example of bad parenting.
T. I., whose real name is Clifford Harris, explained in the programme that he has spoken about sex with his daughter, and added:
'I'm taking her to the gynecologist. After my daughter's 16th birthday I put a note on her door: 'Gynecologist in the morning at 09.30'.'
'We went together to the gynecologist, where my daughter wrote that the doctor may share information about the study with me. The doctor explained to me that the mødommen can be broken by things other than sexual intercourse. He mentioned among other things, cycling, horse riding, athletics and other physical activities', explained T. I. in the podcast and added:
'Listen. My daughter does not go to horse riding. She is not running on the bike, and she cultivates nor sport. You just need to check her hymen and then give me the result of the investigation.'
Several stars have sharply criticized T. I. for his unworthy treatment of her own daughter. Rapper Iggy Azaela wrote on Twitter: He needs therapy.
Supermodel Chrissy Teigen also commented on the matter on Twitter:
'I thought, frankly, that we should not talk about mødoms-hinder in the day. Or what do you think of T. I.?'
def did not think we would be talking about hymens today. or TEN— christine teigen (@chrissyteigen) November 6, 2019
The american organization 'Planned Parenthood', working with young people and sexuality, also criticized T. I.'s opinions on Twitter:
'don't Know who needs to hear it here. But innocence is a fictional social construct, and it has absolutely nothing with jomfruhinden to do'.
Idk who needs to hear this but virginity is a made-up social construct, and it has absolutely nothing to do with your hymen.— Planned Parenthood (@PPFA) November 6, 2019
According to the sexlinien.dk is mødommen of girls and women is a thin and elastic slimhindefold, sitting as a garland at the entrance to the vagina.
It is a common myth that mødommen be broken when a girl has intercourse in the vagina the first time, but it does not.
for many girls do it neither hurt or bleed. Sex in the vagina can cause a girl or a woman bleeds afterwards, because she f.ex. have been a rift in the mucosa. It can happen even if she has had sexual intercourse in the vagina many times before. But it can also be that nothing is happening, because mødommen is elastic or very thin. Most girls and women have slimhindefolden entire life.