One begins to reflect on life, when the year draws to an end. Has reached its goal, taken the right decisions, spent enough time on the ones you love? etc. Here are some of the questions that I ask myself, and my thoughts on the 2019.
I think that I have been better to say from the face of people who do not will me well. It has been a bit of a process, for deep down inside I'm actually a pleaser who just wants to be loved by all. And when I was younger, I went too far in relation to friends and girlfriends. I was too forgiving, and my limits were exceeded time and time again.
How is it fortunately no longer. Today, it is easier to muck out in the friends list. It have nothing with age to do. As a young man, you feel, of course, that you have a whole life ahead of him. At my age you know that it was not longer. So, you ask yourself: Who have I want to spend the rest of my life together with? Who does not waste my time? Who holds me and loves me as I am?
another important thing to reflect upon is your job. Are you still happy, when you jump out of bed in the morning? I have had a busy year with lots of tv-work and going a good year in meeting professionally. Even have something new in the pipeline, which I am very excited to share. You spend many hours on the job, and so it is important that you are happy. I'm happy to make 'Forsidefruer' and work for TV3.
I spend really much time on my nearest. On the good loyal girlfriends and friends. On my two amazing children. To my lovely granddaughter.
And then I shall be a grandmother for the second time. I am prould like hell and can hardly get my arms down! The first time was absolutely overwhelming. I sat in the car, when I got the call that my daughter-in-law had given birth to a little boy. The tears pressed on. It was my child who now had a baby! It was surreal and absolutely amazing. I could not wait to meet the little new. The largest in this world is to become a grandmother. He is the sweetest boy. Easy and super-loving and looks like my own son for a dot. Grandchildren are the dessert in life. And now enriches my son myself so with another grandson. I am pleased so much.
I also spend a lot of time on him, I love. Karsten and I live life to the fullest and take in the new year on our lifetime dream trip to Peru. We must, for once, to travel alone and enjoy each other. Stay really nice, all the things that we usually do not. We must experience a lot of history and culture and visit a country neither of us have been in before. It will be so exciting!
We really need it, Karsten has been suffering with many pains and should have made a new hip in the new year. It will be nice, then both hips fixed so he can liven up the body again. Sometimes I forget his age, that he actually reaches age 75 next time. I will be 50 next time. We are no longer quite young, but together is 125 years! But it is just about to enjoy life and each other, and suddenly, it's over!
I have always thought that I was immortal, and that nothing could beat me out. But after I lost my father, I have changed the view. Life is fragile. We are here on borrowed time. It is important, therefore, that one occasionally reflects upon his life, asking yourself some questions and adjust here and there, so you will be happy.