Give Counseling a Try First and See Where It Goes

Give Counseling a Try First and See Where It Goes

RECEP KARACA
RECEP KARACA
10 July 2019 Wednesday 11:40
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Give Counseling a Try First and See Where It Goes

You might be apprehensive about the idea of counseling, and it's understandable. The moment you seek help from a counselor is a sign that your mental health is in terrible shape, and you're not quite ready to accept it. However, if you're in an unstable state, a counselor might help. Forget about the implication of this decision and focus on how you can get better. Counselors are experts in dealing with mental health issues, and their help could finally solve your problem.

Start with one session

If you're uncertain if it's the right choice for you, the best thing to do is to start with just one session. See where it goes and determines how you feel after one conversation. If you feel good about it, you can proceed with the next meetings; otherwise, you can end after one, and it’s okay.

Be honest

The problem is that when you keep your problems to yourself, you pretend that you're okay or everything will be okay if you stay quiet. The truth is that you need to be honest with yourself and how you feel. Counselors will allow you to process how you think and find ways to deal with your emotions. Be honest during the session since your sharing will remain private and confidential.

Some problems are too much to bear

You might think that you’re a tough person and you can survive this ordeal without anyone guiding you. The problem is that your mind could also mess you up. Even if you think you are a tough person, you might already be falling apart within. With a counselor by your side, you at least have someone listening to you. It doesn’t matter whether you feel like you receive good advice. The point is that someone is there to sit with you and listen to how you feel.

You already exhausted other options

Tough people have ways to deal with stress. They go out for a walk or watch a movie. If you already experienced stressful situations before, you know what to do when you have problems. However, when you face a unique situation, it might seem like you can’t survive it. Even if you already tried other approaches to deal with stress, it seems like nothing works. Therefore, the best way is to ask for help from a mental health expert. The novelty of this problem might make it tough for you right now, and you need someone to guide you.

There’s no shame in asking for help

Always remember that when you're going through a rough patch, you will find people to help you. It's okay if you seek help even if society thinks you're weak for doing so. It's your life, and you decide what's best for you. Forget what others think about this decision since your goal is to get better.

You can start by researching online; visit website resources, blogs, and forums to look for further information about counseling. If it works for you, it’s okay to pursue other counseling sessions in the future.

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